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    Circle of Letting Go

    Paper, pens, a bowl of water and candles.

    A group sitting on the floor in a loose circle in a bright room, seen from behind.
    What to Expect

    We begin by settling, and with one prompt: what would you like to put down for a while? You write for yourself, on paper nobody else reads — a sentence, a list, a letter you are not going to send. There is time afterwards to say as much or as little as you want to the circle. Most people say one line. Some say nothing, and that is a complete answer. We close with a small ritual of letting go: the paper is folded, and you choose what happens to it. Some people keep theirs. That is allowed, and it is not a failure.

    Run of the Day

    Settling in

    We start slowly, with tea and a few minutes of quiet. Nothing is asked of you yet.

    A dark bowl on a wooden table with loose tea leaves scattered around it.

    One question

    What would you like to put down for a while? It is read out once, and then there is silence.

    Two blank cards on a pale surface with a sprig of olive beside them.

    Writing, for yourself

    A sentence, a list, a letter you are not going to send. The paper is yours and nobody else reads it.

    Pages of handwriting with a pen resting across them.

    Saying as much or as little as you want to

    There is time to say a line to the circle. Most people say one. Some say nothing, and that is a complete answer.

    A single tea light burning on a dark surface.

    Folding it, and choosing

    The paper is folded, and you decide what happens to it. Some people keep theirs. That is allowed, and it is not a failure.

    A weathered handwritten note, creased and faded.
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    Loose printed pages spread out with a blank ruled card resting on top.

    Paper nobody else reads

    A dark bowl on a wooden table with loose tea leaves scattered around it.

    Tea, and a while to arrive before anything is asked

    Still water with low hills behind it, under an open sky.

    A bowl of water, and a choice about what you wrote

    What's Included

    Paper, pens, a bowl of water and candles. Tea.

    Good to Know

    Step-free, with an accessible toilet. Chairs and floor cushions both work. There is a quiet space you can use at any point, and you can pass at every stage.

    Bring This Experience To Your Group

    Planning this for a team, a birthday, or a group of friends? Message us and we'll help you work out the details.

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