Notebooks, pens, cushions and chairs.

Four things, in order, and none of them is a surprise. We settle, and spend a few minutes noticing what the body is doing — where you are holding something, how you are breathing. Nothing is interpreted; it is just a way of arriving. Then a short guided reflection: two or three prompts, read out slowly, with silence between them. Then writing, for yourself. Nobody reads it. Then listening in pairs. One person talks for a few minutes; the other listens and does not advise, agree, reassure or fix. Then you swap. Being listened to like that is unfamiliar and it is the part most people remember. We close as a circle with one sentence each, or a pass.
A few minutes noticing what the body is doing — where you are holding something, how you are breathing. Nothing is interpreted; it is a way of arriving.

Two or three prompts, read out slowly, with silence between them.

Nobody reads it, and nobody asks what it said.

One person talks for a few minutes; the other listens and does not advise, agree, reassure or fix. Then you swap. Being listened to like that is unfamiliar, and it is the part most people remember.

We close as a circle, the same way we started.


Listening in pairs, side by side if you prefer

Tea, and a few minutes of arriving

Writing, for yourself. Nobody reads it
Notebooks, pens, cushions and chairs. Tea.
Step-free, with an accessible toilet. Chairs and floor cushions both work. The listening pairs can be done sitting side by side rather than face to face, and you can ask to sit out that part.
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